A while back, my mother and I had a discussion on the idea of perfectionism, and people’s assertion that they are perfectionist. My mom, who I suspect was having flashbacks of aggravating former colleagues, rejected the idea that any...
A few months ago I wrote a post dealing with happiness, and how it is ultimately a choice. What I meant by this is, notwithstanding those who suffer from certain mental health issues, maintaining a content and happy life...
One of my biggest prayers recently has been for wisdom. This is not because I have never desired wisdom before, but rather, the older I get, and the more life experiences I have, the more I recognize the need...
The other week my friend sent me an article entitled for church girls who considered adoption, invitro and going off the pill because boaz might be doing a bid upstate. In the article, the author, who is a young...
The other day I began to reflect on my current career path and realized how far I had veered from my original dream. As I have stated in previous posts, when I was young I decided to become a...
I actually wanted to title this post “Sometimes you gotta lose to win,” but unfortunately for me, Fantasia has already made that declaration. Admittedly, when I first heard the title to her song “Lose to Win” I was a...
Last year I graduated with my third degree, but had no concrete plan on the next steps to take in achieving my goals. In fact, I was no longer sure what my goals were anymore. What I thought I...
I recall hearing the title to President Obama’s second book, The Audacity of Hope, and thinking that it was a peculiar title for a book. I did not quite understand the juxtaposition of the two words “audacity” and “hope.”...
I know by 30 when someone asks you what do you do for a living, you should have some idea how to answer that question. And generally speaking I do have an answer. But as someone who is in...
I don’t know about you, but I am not a fan of waiting. That’s why I will change checkout lines three times at the grocery store, searching for the fastest line. Or I will give a deep side eye...